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  • author ( 45, Man | Park City, UT, USA )

    Generally, I like to keep a first date simple. Elegant, but not over the top. I want both of us to feel a lot of safe space. We're getting to know each other. I want her to feel like she was treated w...  see more >>

  • author ( 45, Woman | Dartmouth, NS, CAN )

    Dinner or coffee for two under candles light with a romantic walk after, just to get to know each other,

  • author ( 43, Woman | Paris, Ile-de-France, France )

    A beautiful unexpected but safe surprise made by a man who will mark my day and will make my heart melt (that is not that easy ;)) I am an oldfashioned traditional romantic girl so I would love the ma...  see more >>

  • author ( 49, Woman | West Des Moines, IA, USA )

    I am very cautious.Would like to meet via coffee OR coffee via Facetime. I want to get to "know you". Don't care what you own or how much you make. I know this app has two aspects of letting...  see more >>

  • author ( 49, Woman | Fredericton, NB, CAN )

    *A FaceTime date is a great way to see if there's initial potential. *A day at the beach or on a boat. (I pack awesome picnic lunches.) *Sitting by a nice fire and enjoying great conversation. *Going...  see more >>

  • author ( 42, Man | Asheville, NC, USA )

    an ideal date would involve 3 things, conversation, food or beverage, and some type of activity. Dinner downtown with a short walk before or after. a hike in the mountains to a waterfall, followed by...  see more >>

  • author ( 41, Woman | Houston, TX, USA )

    I love to travel and eat at nice restaurants where the ambiance is sent for romance. I want to be surprised and let my date pick the place for us, decide on the menu, and of course anything else we wo...  see more >>

  • author ( 42, Woman | Lower Bavaria, Bayern, Germany )

    A nice dinner for two with good food and red wine with a good view. Real talks about ourselves and about what we want for our future. Enjoying the evening with good music and good ambient. Then we go...  see more >>

  • author ( 48, Woman | Richburg, SC, USA )

    Dinner outside where we get to watch the sunset. A quiet evening stroll along the shore, letting the water wash over our feet, laughing and talking as we continue our conversation from dinner. Ending...  see more >>

  • author ( 48, Woman | Saint Augustine, FL, USA )

    Drinks at a smoky candlelit bar with attitude and sultry music in maybe some funky downtown location followed by a beautiful dinner with an interesting menu full of things I've never tried before and...  see more >>

  • author ( 44, Man | New York, NY, USA )

    Ideally, it involves a private jet to a private beach in Spain. But more practically, Im always looking for an excuse to get sushi, so dinner at Sugarfish? Or coffee at Blue Bottle, if thats more your...  see more >>

  • author ( 48, Woman | Aurora, CO, USA )

    An outdoor/indoor festival of some type. There is a variety of food for different taste, usually music, things to see and discuss, and movement as we explore. It's a great way to get to know someone...  see more >>

  • author ( 40, Woman | Van Nuys, CA, USA )

    Casual getting to know each other at a comfortable public place doing a fun activity, where we can enjoy the activity while getting to know each other. By third date I may like a more romantic date...  see more >>

  • author ( 41, Woman | San Diego, CA, USA )

    I prefer to chat first- you can really get a feel on the phone about someone and not waste each other's time meeting if you don't vibe. If we get along from there I usually just meet for a coffee or a...  see more >>

  • author ( 45, Woman | Pickens, SC, USA )

    Having a nice dinner, glass of wine, maybe even a sunset :) talking about our days and really listening to one another. No phones. Laughter!